I am consistently reminded of how lucky I am. There is not much that I like more than making people happy. To inspire others into laughter and gratefulness, so they can live to their fullest and spread the power of kindness throughout their lives.
I recently was working in a small community of neighbors. There had been some discontent around a community park. Some of the neighbors wanted to remove a hedge and others were against it. The result was a sloppy execution of a hedge renovation and partial removal. It was ugly to say the least.
As various neighbors started getting involved and others grew increasingly upset one of them offered plants from there own garden to help fill in the space.
My co-workers and I moved about five evergreen Huckleberries that we had planted and maintained for the last five years. They were all healthy and full, standing three to four feet in height with a spread of at least twenty inches. We also moved in some vine maples in an effort to block a view from one neighbors front door.
This neighbor had been very upset at the hedge removal and the resulting view. When we had finished the small project of moving a few shrubs thoughtfully into place to screen the view we called the neighbor out to see. We just asked them to come out and see if everything was in the right place and if they were happy with the result.
They cried.
They were so touched that we had all moved such mature and full shrubs, placed them with such care, and made a hole in their view the future model for the rest of the remaining hedge. Most of all they were touched that we did what we said, when we said and that we did it with such thoughtfulness.
I had nearly nothing to do with the arranging of this project. I was just planting and placing the new shrubs. The reaction of the one neighbor was so dramatically different than what I had heard the tone of the issue had been. It was an enriching experience to be involved in and I was so happy to be part of it.
Good communication, patience and kind intentions go a long way!
